Tough news mate but its happened to all of us at somepoint. My advice is start the ball rolling on moving on with your life. Time to think about yourself and your children. Sure it will be a nightmare for a while but as always things get better over time. Chin up bud.
Sorry to hear this mate, you know my feelings about it, I would of got rid a long time ago. Its shit mate, but fook her off and start enjoying youre life,whats gone is gone, look forward to the future !
Sorry to hear this bud..... but yeah I agree with dragerboy on this, time to move on and start a new life for you and the kids, there' never going to be any trust between you two ever again. So I'd just get out of it, keep it civil for the kids but honestly move on!
But you can always take a little revenge, by signing up to a swingers or dogging site using the pictures you found with her and the other guy and both their contact details.
Share the pics or it didn't happen...
Bad taste joke mate and gutted for you.
I have no idea how old your children are but hopefully of an age that aren't mother dependant buddy.
It certainly doesn't sound that she's put the effort into making your relationship work and is being rather selfish.
If it was me I'd quite likely do time by taking a crow bar to the bloke but that's just me and I'm not saying that's the answer.
Do you know the chap involved?
Does he know she's married?
It could be she's made out shes single.
When do these meets take place? Do you have a lot of time apart?
Really sorry to hear mate.
I've never been in this situation and I don't know the circumstances but to me there's only one solution. Kick her out of your home and go for custody of your children.
Give her a bad name and fight the courts for custody as she's clearly far too interested in her own needs to meet your children's needs.
May well be worth checking the Computer tmp files for downloaded email attachments!
Lastly and probably most importantly..... Don't get mad get even.
Go and pick up a younger better looking model. A younger sister or friend should do nicely.
sorry to see this mate you must be gutted,but there is a saying,1 door clossing,another 1 opens.i have found through live this is the case maybe not straight away but it will happen,hope you get through it mate and come out a better man all the best